Monday, October 10th, 2011
Listen carefully to what he says about his ex.
This is how you tell whether a new partner is ready and worth the “risk”.
Check out the article, How I Learned To Stop Blaming The Ex And Became A Man, by Elliot Katz.
Refreshing insight and candor from the male perspective.
Tags: Blame, Connection, Relationship Patterns
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Monday, July 12th, 2010
Pointing fingers doesn’t help.
“Whenever you are pointing your finger at someone, notice that there are always three fingers pointing back at you.”
Great quote! Keep this visual in mind next time you find yourself lapsing into making excuses and blaming others for your choices.
Stop and ask yourself, “What is it that I am unwilling to be responsible for in this situation?” Read more »
Tags: Blame, Relationship, Shame
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