Monday, July 12th, 2010
“Whenever you are pointing your finger at someone, notice that there are always three fingers pointing back at you.”
Great quote! Keep this visual in mind next time you find yourself lapsing into making excuses and blaming others for your choices.
Stop and ask yourself, “What is it that I am unwilling to be responsible for in this situation?” Read more »
Monday, July 12th, 2010
Taking your shoes off means that you have to suspend your world view, cross over the bridge into your partner’s world and imagine what they might be feeling.
All you can do is guess. It is the intention to try and understand what your partner is experiencing that makes the impact. Read more »
Friday, July 2nd, 2010
Let go of the attachment of being right and suddenly your mind is more open. You can benefit from the unique viewpoints of others without being crippled and limited by your own judgment.
When we move away from the need to be right and the necessity to have our perspective dominate the relationship then we are ready to learn the art of validation. Read more »
